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07-01-2012 #1Junior Member
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- Jun 2012
so i just went to the store because i was craving a slurpee. As i was paying for it , the man that works there was like "is this your snack for the month?" And i was like "what?" then he basically said that i need to but fat on my bones and i look like a skeleton blah blah blah.
I JUST WANTED TO GET MY SLURPEE IN PEACE. lol.
i dont even know this man.
Personally , i just think people like that are SO rude. Like he doesnt know what im going through, and he is so quick to judge. ugh. has anything like this happened to any of you?
I know people who are naturally very skinny without being anorexic. Some people need to just shut their big mouths and not pretend to know what is going on in someones head! Ugh. People annoy me sometimes lol.
Did you enjoy your slurpee? x
I remember when I was in college, I used to always shop in the Spar next to my flat and I guess I used to buy a lot of bananas for the potassium and the man who worked there started making comments about how many bananas I ate, like kind of sexual but in an innocent kind of way. And if I went in and didn't buy bananas he'd ask me why I wasn't getting bananas and do this wink thing. I wound up hating going in if he was there cos even though I laughed along, it made me sooo uncomfortable!
07-01-2012 #4Senior Member
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- Apr 2012
On Easter, I went to my grandparent's house for Sunday dinner. The last time I saw them before that was before my eating disorder. The whole time they were like, "WOW! You look so much better!" or "You're so skinny! Are you sick?" And then I put tiny portions of food on my plate and they stared the whole time.. it was so annoying and rude.
I get soo many comments on how skinny I am it's unreal. People say I need to eat a "Big Mac" and stupid predictable comments like those. Or just talk about how skinny I am non stop in general. It's really disrespectful and makes me kinda paranoid in public.The devil's language taste of lust
07-02-2012 #6Junior Member
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- Aug 2010
- South Coast, United Kingdom
The worst for me was a couple days ago, I got drunk with a friend and ended up having a drunken b/p, my friend stayed outside while I went in to purge. I my drunken state I though I'd cleaned up all the evidence of my purge, but clearly not. Anyways my friend stayed the night and in the morning my mum came into my room and said 'Cassie, no throwing up this week. Please.' My friend was like 'Ooops was that the alcohol?' (He knows about my issues but thinks I'm 'okay'.) My mum just stands there staring at me for a few seconds and was like 'Her throwing up isn't always involuntary, IS IT CASSIE?!' I was just sat there hoping the world would swallow me up. To make it worse my friend said 'Vomit breath is so not sexy.' Oh yeah, because the whole reason I torture myself in this way is because I have a burning desire to attract men... *facepalm*
I've had people comment obviously........ One time my friend said that i'm like demi lovato. I don't even purge. (well i have done once, but this was before it). That really hurt me. As for being called skinny mini and skinny guts *rolls eyes*. Why can't people just shut up.
My brother finally figured out one day that I was purging on purpose, not because I had problems with acid reflux and crap I convinced him with before. He chased me into my room, yelled at how disgusting I was and slammed the door. Next morning we were having brunch with our parents. It's called "kunefeh", a traditional dessert which for some reason people have for breakfast here.... It's basically a thick slab of sweet full fat cheese, a thick layer of semolina dough, baked with syrup to hold together, then drenched with more syrup and chopped nuts, eaten with a kind of sesame-covered bagel. Not so healthy.
Anyway, I was just staring at my plate, didn't want to eat, and was also embarrassed that my "secret" was out. He said "What? It's not going to eat you alive" Then automatically turns to my mom "Yesterday I read that the best way to lose weight is to eat healthy and *blablabla*" Then looks back at me and smirks stupidly. I left the table.
Months later. mom caught me purging. She asked if she can "join my weight loss club".
My family are not rude people. But their comments were hurtful. It's just that I was at a normal weight, and they thought I was doing it IN ORDER TO lose weight, out of vanity. Just like so many others presume...
My classmates were ordering lunch from class (We're allowed to receive delivery from nearby pizza shops! haha) When one girl asked what I wanted, another one interrupted saying "You're seriously asking her if she wants food?".
I live a couple countries below :P Lebanon