The stupid comments people make & things they do

[EliMav]

Sometimes people are so stupid and insensitive..or maybe it's just be being overly sensitive. Still though.
I hate when people say stuff about how I'm "curvy". I didn't ask for my hips to be fucking huge.
Or when you sit down and people are like "oh my gosh my thighs get huge when I sit down too!" And you're just like..I didn't think mine were that big.
Or when people poke your stomach..it makes me want to throw up.
Just last night my boyfriend was just playfully pinching my cheeks, and he laughs and says that one of his friends has chubby cheeks too. I wanted to die.
Why don't people think before they say shit?

[f-g]

Because people are idiots... My bf on a daily basis shakes my stomach and giggles "beeeellly" like a four year old. I know he does not mean any harm in this hes just showing affection but good god it gets to me!

[azzywazzyjazzy]

Oh my gosh yes. My mom is by far the most triggering person I know. She knows I purge a lot and when she found out I told her I did it because I ate too much and felt uncomfortable, not because I was scared of the calories. So she makes constant comments on how much I eat.
She also took me shopping and made me share a dressing room with her and she commented on how bony my arms looked. And then she proceeded to tell me how 'healthy' the rest of me looked. I almost cried.

[KoH.]

My ex had this moment of pressing into .. i think it was just above my hip bone. He was so baffled and was like 'Whats that???' and pressed back at his spot too. He was doing this for a while and then said.. "When i press and rub on you it feels really bumpy? but mine feels really smooth! that must be what fat feels like'
Why didn't he just dag a knife in there instead and kill me.

[ForeverPURE]

Ok so my coach is really worried about me and told my mum but my mum thinks its all a joke.

So we're are about to eat (for me a low cal) dinner and she says "Geez Neish, you can't eat that! Your the girl who starves herself remember? You don't eat!" and then laughs.

She thinks it's a joke and hilarious that my coach thinks (and knows) that something's wrong. It really pisses me off.

[annaliese]

'You were eating so much less than you were before IP'

No I wasn't mom, and thanks for making me think I'm eating tonnes now, as you obviously think so.

'Your food smells/how can you eat that'

I hate people who comment on my food, can't you see this is all I have to look forward to?!

I hate people who visit my home as well at 7pm as that is my eating time and I'm so frickin hungry, and I just have to wait around for them to leave. My parents know this as well, and I hate when they hang around in the kitchen or ask me to do something for them.

[ItsMyLife]

I hate being touched in any way at all on my body my bum is okay but my legs boob tummy hips sides... i cant stand it and when people say "oh you look healthy" .... my instant thought is " oh you might as well say oh you have gotten fat!"
even people who know about my ED make it even worse like silly things like "ohh i might start doing what you do so i can lose a lil bit of weight..." that makes me SO mad! Its not a choice it's a F***ING illness! just thinking about some of the things is making my blood boil and sadly want to restrict too... so i am going to shut up and thin positively now instead xxxxxx

[karlamorgan]

Uuuuugh I hate any comments on my food. It's such a battle to even eat in the first place, especially in front of other people, and then when they comment on it...I just hate it. Like one time I was drinking with friends and I was drunk-binging on nuts, oreos and peanut butter. One guy was like "you seem really hungry right now". Fuck right I'm hungry, I'm starving myself. Or another time I was eating onion rings - the only thing I was planning on eating all day - and I was with the guy I like, and he said, "those are so gross". I was so freaking triggered. Eating them was the one thing I was looking forward to all day, it was the only thing that was going to be in my stomach - and he had to make that comment.

People just don't think before they open their mouths...

[WillowXOXO]

I get a lot of comments at work. I'm a waitress at a bar and mostly men go there so they're not so sensitive.

One guy today was like "look at your belly I love when girls have that little pudge there" and poked my stomach. I could feel the tears welling up in my eyes as soon as he did that. I hate when people touch my stomach!!!!!! A girl at work poked my stomach today too and was like "skinny minnie!" I almost hit her

I dont understand why people poke my stomach!!! I don't go around poking anyone else's!!!

I hate it when people call my salad and baby carrots "rabbit food". It's HEALTHY and low calorie unlike all the garbage most people eat I should be making fun of everyone else!!