I Really Don't Want To Be In Love

[Docile]

I'm in a bit of a pickle and need some advice...sooo I have some very strong feelings for a certain someone but he doesn't love me and never will which I can accept. The only problem is i can't control my feelings for him and I feel trapped. I knew I loved him the moment I saw him. It's almost 4 years later and my feelings for him have actually increased. When we are together things usually work out perfectly for a few days then crashes in a emotionally abusive mess. I just want to get over him and move on but I've tried countless times and it doesn't work. All I secretly want is to be in his arms. I highly doubt a relationship would ever work out because he just doesn't feel the same way. I wish I didn't love him because he really doesn't deserve it. I want to be happy but that seems impossible if I cant be with him and I really don't want to end up heartbroken again. I guess my question is how do you get over someone you're deeply in love with?

[KoH.]

Have you asked him what he thinks of you? This is a horrible position to be in x[

[Mr.Mirror]

get as far as you can from him and wait
unfortunately there's no easy way out of it =/

[Docile]

@KoH, No not out right but I suspect I am a play toy for him.

[KoH.]

Try leaving him alone for a while.. and start talking to someone else. Jealousy is not the answer but if he can see you're moving on and had enough of this then he might step up his game a bit. Right now he's comfortable having someone around that's totally in love but if some other guy gets that attention then bring on the competition! If he doesn't, then i think it's safe to say that he's not interested, and you really need to find someone who is. There will be someone, you just can't rush love.