My friend is ***THE TRIGGER*** (tw)

[fer]

I'm glad you guys also share the same feelings. Yes I know It's awful, specially because (in my case) we are like best friends and we spend a lot of time together. Constantly triggered!

[Marian]

That also happed to me. My best friend for years was my height but a lower BMI and all she ate was candy. It was insanely triggering-I stopped being able to handle being around her. Now that we aren't friends anymore I've been told she definitely was bulimic or anorexic (purge subtype).

It's funny how many people this happens to.

[risktaina]

My boyfriend's bmi is around 18.7 and mine is 25. Imagine how weird we must look together. I want to be tinier than him and it sucks.

[HannahElizabeth]

Yea my best friends at my dance studio is kind of triggers for me. My closest friend is around my height (5'7") and about a year ago weighed 115 pounds she also has a fast metabolism and dances daily at her school. So ever since this has been my goal weigh and because this year she gained like 15 pounds (although you can barely tell) I lowered my goal weight to 110 because I reached 115 but gained and now weigh in the 130s. When I look at my friends I think they are all skinnier than me and it's terrible.

Your story is so close to mine its a little bit creepy x) I totally understand though

[hannahisahippy]

My ex who is now just my friend is disgustingly, yet beautifully thin. He's six foot five and weighs around 125 pounds. Whenever we hung out, I would see how thin his legs are or how his collarbone juts out so far and I would feel like a fat, gross pig. He eats EVERYTHING and drinks a ton of coffee. He's not very active. I'm so jealous.