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  1. 01-18-2012 #1
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    Angry My "friends" dont talk to me when i become social

    Everytime I lose weight , and become more social and proper my "friends" flat out ignore me. I have been getting a lot of great attention lately because I look better , I'm friendlier , and I stand up straight and start a conversation with whomever I can. I try to sit with my friends , but the just turn the other way and shove me out of their conversation.
    Does anybody else get ticket with these kind of "friends"?
    You can never put your life in another persons hands . Why you ask? Because humans are not perfect , eventually in one way or another they will let you down ; its not sad it just is. I only I am the master of my domain , wherever I am now I put myself here.
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    Luckily, I haven't had a problem with friends like that. But I'm very very picky about the people I hang around. Have you asked them why they treat you this way?
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    I really don't think it would do any good , I can take a hint if they completely exclude me from EVERYTHING.To be honest though this has happened on more than one occasion....in fact its happened twice in every school I've been too(we move a lot) but really this has been going on since grade 1.
    You can never put your life in another persons hands . Why you ask? Because humans are not perfect , eventually in one way or another they will let you down ; its not sad it just is. I only I am the master of my domain , wherever I am now I put myself here.
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    Seems like you only have two choices here then.

    continue being friends with the people who don't seem to care for EVERY aspect of your person. They're behavior may be hurtful, but hey, you still have friends....

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    cut your losses and move on from them. You'll find more friends, whether your being more social or not. Friends come and go, but great friends always happen by accident.

    Not everyone is introverted like me, I've realized this. Naturally my choice would be , but its not my choice to make this time.

    You could always go with the third hidden choice....

    develop and army of super human soldiers under your control alone, take over the country (or world, just make sure I have a cushy high paying job waiting on me) and force everyone to act like real friends to you AT ALL TIMES!! Mwahahahahaha!!

    ::ahem:: So yeah, thats all this balrog has to offer.
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    Quote Originally Posted by balrog_roller View Post
    Seems like you only have two choices here then.

    continue being friends with the people who don't seem to care for EVERY aspect of your person. They're behavior may be hurtful, but hey, you still have friends....

    Or

    cut your losses and move on from them. You'll find more friends, whether your being more social or not. Friends come and go, but great friends always happen by accident.

    Not everyone is introverted like me, I've realized this. Naturally my choice would be , but its not my choice to make this time.

    You could always go with the third hidden choice....

    develop and army of super human soldiers under your control alone, take over the country (or world, just make sure I have a cushy high paying job waiting on me) and force everyone to act like real friends to you AT ALL TIMES!! Mwahahahahaha!!

    ::ahem:: So yeah, thats all this balrog has to offer.
    Hmmm the 3rd choice is incredibly tempting....I'll make a plan and see where it goes . For now though I think I will cut my losses though , you really have to play the hands your dealt sometimes. If these totally shitty ...I should probably stop beings friends with them , and just move on. This was really just a rant , I do feel much better now ^^.
    You can never put your life in another persons hands . Why you ask? Because humans are not perfect , eventually in one way or another they will let you down ; its not sad it just is. I only I am the master of my domain , wherever I am now I put myself here.
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