new-ish people just have a read (not ranting at anyone either)

[abitdifferent]

Right people (more so new-ism members) just listen, I'm not even a very long time member here but in the time I've been here and left then come back again I just got to say this place changes and changes and changes. Sometimes it's really good and bang on and then others it is like "wtf!?!?! BASTARDS!" blah blah. I can understand coming on here first time and seeing so uch drama with people and it can be off putting BUT please just bare in mind that it always changes eventually. People aren't going to jump down your throat and be a twat to you cuz ur new...they will only do it if they sniff any pro-ana or wanna crap from ya.

Put it this way...VAST majority of people I spoke to at first are not here anymore and I can say that I barely know many of the new members either now. it ust goes round and round so get yourself tightly into the loop and bloody stay in it. And the wanna crap is bad atm yes BUT I have seen it a lot worse. spech around the time I first joined here.

When I joined I saw all the threads "where have all the older members gone!?" and read the usernames and thought "hm that's mad, I wonder what it was like back then?"...months later someone mentions me in one of those type of threads lol

Just be yourself and explain your story better. don't make extremely pointless threads and if you really like it here then just bite your lip and ignore. because truth is the more ya express your opinion on something/someone there will ALWAYS be someone reading the thread who think you are the fucking anti-christ for simply having an argument or caling soeone names. Different countries and different people around them. Some will cry cuz ya said a naughty word to them and some will just laugh like most do...then the good one's say naughty things back too LOL if you are the latter then this place cud bring you other problems too (ohhh I know)

Anyway as per, hope I mind sense. Cuz again I a manic and so up and down. I've lost 4 inches or more off my waist so I'm weird again and back again for support yadda yadda. just chill and love the website and the people you talk to on it

[abitdifferent]

and yeh looking back through it this cud be seen as an extremely pointless thread. oh damn whatzeehell man. hope it's not TOO pointless

[-cavities]

awww. I love it.

I'm worried about you though

[LaffyTaffy]

Yeah I sort of agree. I was searching the net looking for a place to get some support and ran accross this site. There are a bunch of ridiculous threads on here and it seems more like a place you'd come to support your ED. I'm looking for support to get out of my ED, not to fall deeper into it.

And yes I do understand that some people aren't ready to recover and I respect that, but it doesn't mean you should give pro Ana/Mia tips to someone tryingto recover.

Ha sorry this prolly turned more into a rant than an opinion. Anyway I think I'm going to have to take a break from this site for a little while as it's becoming sort of a trigger for me.

[The Hatter]

and yeh looking back through it this cud be seen as an extremely pointless thread. oh damn whatzeehell man. hope it's not TOO pointless

I don't find it pointless at all.

Very well put, should be a damn sticky, could assist in less butt hurt around here. haha.

[heavybuthopeful]

I didnt find it pointless at all, thanks for reminding me why I like it here.

[Mc1423]

I loveee this<3

I'll admit that I was seeing some members that I actually respected quite a bit put some others down and it made me SO self conscious. I was afraid that if I posted anything I'd get called a wanna because I'm new and I've only had my ED for about 1 & 1/2 years.

But this thread made me realize I feel like I belong here thank you for posting this

[Matthewww]

I loveee this<3

I'll admit that I was seeing some members that I actually respected quite a bit put some others down and it made me SO self conscious. I was afraid that if I posted anything I'd get called a wanna because I'm new and I've only had my ED for about 1 & 1/2 years.

But this thread made me realize I feel like I belong here thank you for posting this

You won't get called a wanna unless your posts look like this:
http://www.whyeat.net/forum/threads/...ababydoll*-*-*
I think you're good lol.

[thisshakingkeepsmesteady]

Hey I am new on here and I wanted to know where to find the rules for posting and stuff. I don't want to accidentally say something insensitive and get banned.

[Matthewww]

Hey I am new on here and I wanted to know where to find the rules for posting and stuff. I don't want to accidentally say something insensitive and get banned.

At the bottom of the page, it should say 'Terms of Use'.