Tips Are Pointless, So Dont Ask!!!

[brokenbird]

ok this is going to be a bit of a rant. I am so sick and tired of people asking for tips.

It doesn't matter what works for one person will not necessarily work for someone else.

We are not here to help each other destroy ourselves.

We are here to help and love and support and comiserate and cry if need be.

I will gladly cry with you, I will cheer for you, i will applaude your successes but I will not give you tips to hurt yourself.

I have been seeing a ton of tip request on here and have been PM a lot too. Especially since i posted my pic the other day.

What i do to myself is not what you need to do to yourself.

I know i am unhealthy and the things i do will probably kill me one day. I won't help anyone to do this to themselves. Especially someone that is only shin deep into an ED where as I am 15 years and over my head with it.

I will gladly offer exercise suggestions, i will help you work out the demons in your head, I will look up healthy recipes to share.

But i will not tell you how to starve, i will not tell you how to purge, I will not tell you how to hide what you do.

I had to get this out of my system. I am literally ready to scream. PLease don't ask for tips or give them.

Don't aid in someones pain.

[Roses]

ye i agree, i just moved the thread to the diets place, any tips for losing weight belong there, right..
it does my head in too, ppl need to think about things before they say them.

tnx for ranting, it saves me doing it..lol

[HoneyHeart]

I got a PM the other day asking for how to purge :/ I was really angry, then i got upset.

I find it really sad that people would actually want to fuck themselves that much on purpose. Shit, they need more help than me! At least i didn't willingly search for this lifestyle.

*sigh*

[UsedRomance]

I don't understand why people WANT to develop an ED. I get that they want to lose some weight, they think it's a quick fix and all that but jeez. Healthy weight loss is 2lbs a week- keep that up and they'd still lose in no time.

I didn't ask for this as I'm sure none of you guys did. Hell, I certainly didn't need "tips". Why people think an ED is the answer to all their problems is beyond me.

Also- people are PMing asking for tips to purge? WTF??? That's screwed up. I'd be angry too.

[Jex]

Thumbs up to this. I'm sick of this. The other day I read a post by a girl asking how to become anorexic?! WTF ~

[HoneyHeart]

I would have told her to jump off of a building. I hear you feel weightless then lol.

But then, i am cranky this week!

[UsedRomance]

You are kidding me? That's friggin' ridiculous!!!

[brokenbird]

I get tip request PM at least once a week. I get them on my Tumblr too....

It makes me furious.

That is why i didn't post for like a week and a half I was so friggin pissed.

But I'm fed up with it and I'm major cranky today. So thought i would put this to use.

[Gollum]

Sensible post is sensible. And should be stickied to the page.

Also, there is no BIG SECRET. There are no special tips that can't be turned up through a google search and some climbing through ick-worthy sites. It isn't a special club that knows the secret to being ~thin~.

Please stop asking.

[perfect_disguise]

it's pretty ironic too because the average i've lost per week is two pounds (it's been more, it's been less but yeah) and that's the most you're supposed to lose eating right and exercising! oh the fucking irony. if i could, i would eat right and exercise. but it's impossible. i wish i could tell that to people who want weight loss tips, because the tip of the day is the same you'd find on Web Md: eat right, and exercise.