Opinions on threesomes?

[LightHeartedLightHeaded]

have you ever had a threesome?

and did you enjoy it?

Me and my boyfriend are planning on one.
With another girl; I'm bisexual.

But she HAS to be fater and uglier than me.
Because I don't want him to see a hot chick
..but man, i'd perfer a hot chick.

It's basically about him wanting to see "girl on girl action"
or whatever..

But i'm really interested in it.

Maybe I could find a hot fat girl..
*scrolling through myspace friends*

[guesswho]

well i havent had one yet, but im bi too and 100% agree with the fatter and uglier thing! otherwise id just be too insecure to do it. better for her to be less hot to me than to make me look like sh*t to him in comparison!

[iliketurtles]

I have had some, and to be honest I'm not going to pander to the whole ED thing of as-long-as-she's-not-as-thin-as-me-I-don't-care.

You have to be totally comfortable in a) yourself b) your body c) your relationship. And that goes for BOTH people. And, nothing personal, I don't think you should do it. The sex is amazing, but it's difficult to separate from a relationship, and I think you should explore it in a context relating entirely to yourself before you involve somebody you care about (this opinion is influenced by other posts of yours I've read, and obviously feel free to tell me to fuck off, just my opinion based on my own life)

[Vision Thing]

To be honest, it sounds like you're agreeing to thing because you want to feel like you look better next to a certain girl.

You boyfriend is already going out with you, so in his eyes, you are already better.

Threesomes can work well, but only if you're in a comfortable relationship. And it doesn't sound like that, through a number of posts you've made (not just here).

[LightHeartedLightHeaded]

Yes.. my boyfriend is very infamous on
whyeat. We aren't in a comfortable place in our relationship.
It's just something he wants...and I want to make him happy. :/

I don't think it's going to happen. it was merely an idea.

[JetBlack61]

yeah.. Not usually something you do with someone you love. It often turns out bad. Usually seems to heighten the insecurities of one party causing something of a volatile relationship after that..

[Vision Thing]

Yes.. my boyfriend is very infamous on
whyeat. We aren't in a comfortable place in our relationship.
It's just something he wants...and I want to make him happy. :/

I don't think it's going to happen. it was merely an idea.


Er, I did a lot of things for my ex to make him feel happy and at the end of it all he still couldn't give a fuck soooooooo basically I hate myself for that.

You'll feel better if you stay to your boundaries. Less to get hurt about if things go wrong.

[MissAnthrope]

Yes, threesomes are fun... in the right situatuions... in the relationship that I am in now, I dont think it would ever happen... but I was with a guys FOREVER that loved threesomes... with another guy or girl, he didnt care.. he liked watching other guys fuck me... while I sucked his dick or he jacked off... It was kinky cool... my fiance is not as adventurous... he likes porn.. lmao;)

[Tyler3295]

Yeah, I would just be leery about the disadvantages a threesome could potentially have on your ED(s)..

[bones]

Haha. I've only had threesomes with two guys.
I'd be too jealous to get with another girl.
And I'm bored of threesomes anyway.
They kind of suck.

[MissAnthrope]

ha ha ha my fiances idea of a threesome is using both hands!! lol