wtf?

[Nelly]

Isn't it odd that as soon as I am doing good in my recovery I actually have someone come up to me and tell me that it looks like I am gaining weight? GAINING WEIGHT? That is not what I need to hear right now! And then of all the nerve they say "Well it looks good on you!" I want to cry ladies. I want to cry!

[sarah-charlotte]

are u i recovery? if so then im not sure this site will help u in that! to be honest we are all as fucked up as each other here! lol good luck, i know how hard it can be. i remember when i started recovery i got a lot of unhelpful comments from people like "oh i wonder how many cals are in that, do u know?" or "you look really healthy now" god i hated that one, why not just say id turned into a whale!? anyway, good luck x x x

[Candykiller]

Yes, exactly...if u don't wanna step back to ana, this forum isn't the best for u're recovery.

But the problem, what u having, is the worst ever...that can be happen with a recovering ana.

F**kn ppl doesn't realize it, 'cause they not in tha same situation, they cant see it.
And they told you, that u're put on weight, great seems better.
That is the most biting sentence for a recovering ana.
That the one stuff that anybody dont wanna hear.
Honey...why don't u tell them, pls don't say that ever to me, 'cause u make it harder...i already said it some times.
I hate it too.
Thatswhy im not going to my mom's office:DD

anyway goood luck to u!!:)
u can do it!

[Professorana]

Sweetheart--I know what a rough time you are having. Recover is a bitch on its own without the stupidity of people's comments. My favorite one was always when people would pile my plate with food and say, "see, you can eat this now." I'd run away and cry.

As the other girls said, this is a forum for proanas. I think it's safe to say that most of us are the furthest thing from recovery right now but here to support each other. I just wouldn't hang around here if you're in recovery as this site will do anything BUT help you recover:)

Sorry you're having a tough time