Dating someone with multiple personalities.

[PrincessInPieces]

The girl I like has multiple personalities.
She doesn't know though.
I've met many of her other personalities, and all of them seem to be in love or lust with me.
All except for the actual girl that I love.
It's really frustrating.
One of her personalities, we'll call that one D, basically tried to have sex with me but I wouldn't because it wasn't the person I love and it felt wrong to do.
Another one constantly talks about how pretty I am.
Another one absolutely hates me.
Another few are in love with me.
All except for the girl I actually love. She's a-sexual.

I'm not even asking for advice, I'm just frustrated. The girl, M, is starting to trust me and we hold hands and cuddle and stuff now, but I'm scared about her other personalities. I can tell them apart really well, so that's not an issue, I'm just worried for her. =/

[reclaimingkatie]

This must feel like such a difficult and confusing situation for you...

Wow...I don't even know what to say because that is a really tough situation to be in... DID (short for dissociative identity disorder otherwise known as multiple personalities...) is caused by extreme abuse at ages 6 and under by the most recent studys...by those who believe the diagnoses exists....(which I think is dumb not to believe it obviously....) But it takes years of therapy to even remotely regulate a balance of living with different identities and that is when the 'core' personality knows that they have this disorder...

Have you thought of the possibility of seeking help for her? Or the two of you? That way you can build a relationship and support her and get to know what is going on... and learn how to be a safe support and not do something to trigger her or harm the relationship that you are trying so hard to build...

Sorry....you said you weren't looking for advice...

*Just that my ex-girlfriend...(still best-friend) has DID....We were together for 3 years... But in the end mutually decided better as friends....but I have learned TONS about DID (known her for 6 years now) and have even been to counselling sessions with her and still helping her through the healing process....It is difficult.... But she knew she was DID when we met....