I can't leave his past alone

[CountingRibs]

No matter how hard I try I cannot leave my bfs past alone, he's made alot of mistakes - so bad I've seen him cry over them :( but everyday I have this uncontrollable to ask him questions about it, such questions as am I the first person you've ever properly loved? (he answered yes), but even stupid stuff like 'how did your first kiss come around? what happened afterwards?'(his first kiss was when he was 10). I'm unstoppable and everyday it physically kills him, he's started losing patience now and I dnt blame him but I can't stop and it;s ruining my relationship with him and I want it to stop because he's the only person I have ever loved and me to him, what can I do??

xx

[anaxmyxpassion]

Try to understand. It's critical to understand why he did those things but with loving someone, there's always a price to pay. If you want to move on in this relationship, forgive him

[Sapphire]

maybe this will help...

every time you feel the need or urge to start in on him, think about how you would feel if he were bombarding you with questions about your ED: why are you this way, how did you get this way, why do you feel this way etc etc

just a suggestion. good luck