i hate that 'bro's before hoes' code. load of shit.

[justlikethem.]

hi im just wondering if someone can give me some advice? i think im falling in love with 2 of my ex's best mate... he's sweet & funny & kind, and really sort of beautiful :/
i stayed up crying with him when i had a messy break up and felt bad: he stayed on the phone til i fell asleep. he was always there, and always is. but he doesnt let me in: he had some family trouble a while back... its difficult for him to have relationships. im not gonna push him, but he shouldnt be giving me signals he likes me, like putting his head on my shoulder, or his arm round my waist, or leaning in so close when we say goodbye i can feel his breath :'( its kinda painful in a weird way.
i went out (and had a serious relationship) with one of his mates. i had a not so serious one with a different friend of his. 1 of his other mates said he likes me. and another 1 said he loves me.
wondering if anyone feels the same? or if anyone has tips on how to forget him :'(
much appreciated
xx

[Jacklinger]

Gosh that sounds complicated. Why forget him? Why not pursue him?

[justlikethem.]

lets call the person there ^ that i felt/feel that about person a. person a is awful, because he's really bad for me. like actually he has fucked me up, and fucked me around so many times i dont remember who i was before i knew him. i wish he wasnt worth the wait for this, but something keeps pulling me back to him and it sucks because now were not talking :L he said he loved me, and i said i have a boyfriend. he knew that though! cos i was back with the guy from ^ up there. and it had been all, yeah im getting over you. person b was my boyfriend, and he was everything to me, he had been my best mate + yeah we'd fucked it up in the past but yeah. now were broke up cos we got drunk and he told me he loved his ex, and i kissed person a, and some random girls and boys at this party. so we broke up, and now neither person b or a will talk to me. ive fucked up and it sucks so badly :')
i cant even explain it, but its gone on too long. i cant pursue him, because hes forgetting me now. and that hurts like fuck :/

[Jacklinger]

OK. Makes sense. Sorry things are hard for you. But there will be others. Just remember to mind yourself around any potential new boyfriends and go easy on the random kissing of strangers and such. It's hard to maintain a relationship when you do that.

[justlikethem.]

ahhaa i know, but id only done it because he had gone and been all yeah, im in love with x-person.

:L