i need to rant and i need answers :(

[gainingcontrol]

my life is hell at the moment :(
im about to rant so sorry if it bores you :(

im at uni , i hate it , i dont fit in, everyones personality overpowers mine ( i used to think i had a very strong personality) i hate it all so much
so to try and contol it i dont eat in uni.i just cant help myself.

My close friend, shes trying to lose weight and i feel the need to start it again.

i know in my head that i need to cut the ties with her , i need to get out of this friendship ... but my heart dosnt want to.

i need helpppp .... also has anyone herte tried ABC , did it work ?

[Vision Thing]

I know it sounds a bit lame, but could you try a sortve a pen pal thing? I live only a few suburbs from a good friend, and we write letters cause we're both not really social going out people. That way you'll be able to feel a little more balanced before deciding whether its better for you to end the friendship or not.

I'm not in uni yet but it scares me, instead of being in a year group of over 100 I'm not just gonna be a face in the thousands, so I get what you mean about feeling like you've lost your personality. It sucks but it will pass eventually :( Not the greatest advice, but the one that's never failed me

And yeah ABC works if you're dedicated enough

[Starving-Beauty]

hey aww im so sorry im here if you need someone to talk to :) add me on msn if you wish To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 1 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.

and the abc have tried it got to day 3 had a huge binge and feelt really guilty.so now i just eat 600-800cals a day easier to stick to and keeps your metabolisim going still and your not starving yourself i sitll east 3 meals a day and snacks but really really low cal things.sometimes i b&p but not to much now.



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[Jacklinger]

my life is hell at the moment :(
im about to rant so sorry if it bores you :(

im at uni , i hate it , i dont fit in, everyones personality overpowers mine ( i used to think i had a very strong personality) i hate it all so much
so to try and contol it i dont eat in uni.i just cant help myself.

so yeah i have this best friend , she couldnt be anymore involved in my life.She chose to go to a uni on the other side of the country basically and it ruined my life. It sent me into a downward spiral and i had to fight to get myself better again , anyways our friendship is going to the shits tbh. Anything she dfoes triggers me back in ed and i hate it.
I thought i was getting over it but now shes trying to lose weight and i feel the need to start it again.

i know in my head that i need to cut the ties with her , i need to get out of this friendship ... but my heart dosnt want to.

i need helpppp .... also has anyone herte tried ABC , did it work ?



thanks :)

I'm not sure I understand when you say others' personalities overpower yours. Are you just shy? There's nothing wrong with that.

Why did your friend decide to attend a different school than yours? Was there anyway you couldve gone to hers?

[hellojellocat]

I second the penpal thing. But if you decide that the friendship really is detrimental to you, and you can't work it out with your friend, breaking off the relationship is better than being around someone who causes you to have negative feelings. It might help to be more active in campus activities. Join some groups or take up a new hobby that allows you to meet people. You might just make even better friends. :)
Just keep going and stay strong! It'll get better!

[gainingcontrol]

I FINALLY DONE IT



i got her out of my life

[Starving-Beauty]

I FINALLY DONE IT



i got her out of my life


yay am proud! good on ya :)

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every time you say no to food you say yes to thin.