why are girls so cold hearted :(

[fashex]

i was in love with my girlfriend... weve been together for 3 months. and yesterday she just broke up with me for some other guy... because "she dosnt feel the same way about me she used to"... why does this always happen :( im gonna go cut some more... fuck...

[anaxmyxpassion]

Some people don't realize a keeper when they see one. They can be selfish in attaining their own happiness and disregard the pain other people will feel. Let it all out, drown yourself in everything and then slowly begin to reach the surface. You can do it. She might not tell you but one day she will realize what she had

[fattykatty]

im sorry this has happened to you love... *hugs* i know how painful having your heart broken can be. but please please please dont cut, don't let her get the better of you. girls can be cold hearted, but not all of us are...im sure your worth loads more than someone like that. as anaxmyxpassion said, im sure she'll soon realise what shes given up, but by then you will have moved on and found someone ten times better. its so hard i know, but it just takes time.
hope our ok, let us know how you are please x

[sugarsweetmelon]

please dont cut. if she is stupid enough to throw you out, you dont want to have scars to remind you of her for the rest of your life..

[Jacklinger]

Women must have deep emotional attachment to continue maintaining a relationship. Don't be too mad at her. Most don't have control over these emotions. It's like loving someone who suddenly loses their memory of you and decides they prefer someone else. It's just the way they are.

Harming yourself may feel like a release but you're actually deepening the wound she left you. Learning to be alone is as important as being in a relationship. Then we are no longer afraid of their inevitable endings, and can have them freely.