to risk losing a friend?

[fattykatty]

i really need help. i cant feel that i can speak to anyone about this....
basically, i think i love one of my friends. its kind of complicated but we have been together a couple of times but never slept together (just other stuff) and the last time i saw him (we were both pissed out our faces) he told me that he liked me and i told him i like him too. so after that we were texting and chatting on the phone constantly and arranged to meet the next week. but then all went quiet and i didnt hear from him for nearly 3 weeks. i saw him tonight with other friends and its just driving me cray. i want to be with him so badly but i really dont know how he feels. he was just acting as usual like we were friends again tonight.
it also doesnt help that im moving 4 hours away to uni in 3 weeks or so....... i want to cry :(
please someone respond. just anything...i really dont know what to do, forgetting him seems to be too too hard.....
x

[SparklyVampire]

aw hun, i'm so sorry to hear that,

but think about this... if you know he likes you too, you can be patient and wait for thngs to evolve. Maybe even wait to finish uni.
In the meantime, you could always find yourself a nice girlfriend to release some hormones with, and since it's another girl it's not even considered cheating!
hey, that might even get him to like you more!

[ageless_stranger]

oh, i've been trying to shag sparkly for years now and didn't get her drunk enough yet, but i hope next week i`ll have another go at it. hmm...shouldn't have said this out loud, now, right?

[SparklyVampire]

@ageless,

but sweety, you know i could never shag you, your breasts are way too small.

[ageless_stranger]

oh, so I should try a combination of alcohol and LSD this time? maybe that way you`ll see them as a bit diferent.

[SparklyVampire]

sure, purple and dripping

[ageless_stranger]

whatever makes you horny, my dear.

[The_dude]

You know I love you all... An eleven-some would be divine...

[fattykatty]

thanks for your (strange?) advice! i dont think im going to hook up with a girl to forget about him though...not so sure that would make me feel better to be honest. interesting outlook though....

[miamama]

Wow,um.....some interesting replies. If you aremoving 4 hours away why are you focusing on him now. Why not wait to see if there are any guys at your new place?

[fattykatty]

yes i thought so too. not exactly what you would call helpful, but there we go!
i cant help it, i love him to bits. its hard. but im sure as soon as i get there and start having fun at freshers week i'll forget all about him...i hope :( lol.i still want to be friends with hm though, but he is now saying that he feels upset when he talks to me....gah! BOYS!! thanks for your advice though, was much more useful than some other peoples!! :)