please help me, it's urgent

[kisa123]

i really need advice. i have become so depressed lately because of my boyfriend. we've been together for 3 months and the first month or so he was great. he kissed me and held my hand and told me he loved me. but now he's just a huge jerk. he never does anything sweet for me. he won't even kiss me. when i go to kiss him he turns his head and only let's me kiss his cheek. he still wants to go on dates and stuff and he texts and talks to me and invites me to do stuff with his family, but he just seems to treat me like just another person. i do so many things for him, make him breakfast, rub his back, tell him how gorgeous he is, do little errands for him. and he does nothing in return. i'm too afraid to bring it up because he flies off the handle. it's awful. i cannot do anything about it because i'm too scared he'll get mad and annoyed and just break up with me. all i can do is cry, and i never cry. i love him so much and i know he has the capacity to love and care for me, but lately he just seems like i'm some kind of disease. please help.

[cherry_kitten]

maybe it's nothing to do with you, and he's just going through stuff of his own that he doesn't feel he can share with you? or maybe he's panicking about commitment? men are funny like that. hope it works out ok
x

[Shandy]

Youll run around and do everything for him and he knows that... give him a challenge girl!! seriously it WILL work... dont do everything for him dont give him all he wants... if he loves you as much as you love him he will change n start to do as you are doing now... if he doesnt.. he is NOT worth it, trust me youll feel like it forever.
Just lay off all the running around after him.. its like he knows youll do anything for him so they lose interest afta a while it gets boring its happened to me but the other way round. he'd do everything, but the second he started to stop doing everything for me and being all over me, i got my act together and knew that to keep him ide have to meet half way and start doing things for him too, because he wasnt just a bore anymore and we both do things to please each other. Dont stop completly just tone it down, it works honestly.
Now 2gether 3 1/2 years.