masturbatin

[effie]

hiiiiiiiiiiiiiii :)
jw cos me nd mi friends were chattin . .how mani of u gals masturbate??
we were finkin its alot more than ppl let on
ne comments will be apreciated tehe!!!
sozz its realliiiii person !!!
gooonnnn ;) reply lol :L xxxx

[silver_elf]

You're right.
It's the best way to become familiar with your body, the best way to remain healthy physically and psychologically :) (Like, you know right away if something isn't quite right, and you know what works for you, and you're not always frustrated haha)
I don't as much as I used to... maybe not such a good sign...
I say it's not normal not to. So do yourself a favour and love yourself!

[effie]

fanx :) lol
i didnt fink nebodi wud realli post :) xxx eff

[Elizabeth]

I live with my boyfriend so I don't masturbate.
Why have a dog and bark yourself lol.

[dreamxonxaxwish]

I live with my boyfriend so I don't masturbate.
Why have a dog and bark yourself lol.

So that you don't have to rely on him. ;) (Plus, some boys like to watch. haha)

To answer your question, I can't say I've never done it.

[Sapphire]

So that you don't have to rely on him. ;) (Plus, some boys like to watch. haha)

To answer your question, I can't say I've never done it.

i like to watch a guy masturbate hahaha

maybe im weird?

[dreamxonxaxwish]

i like to watch a guy masturbate hahaha

maybe im weird?

I don't think that's weird. I'm not into it, but it's not weird. Haha. Especially compared to some sexual things. :)

[silver_elf]

I don't think that's weird. I'm not into it, but it's not weird. Haha. Especially compared to some sexual things.

Yeah there's lots of weird stuff out there! But people are slowly becoming more open and comfortable about that kind of thing which is really good.

[dreamxonxaxwish]

Yeah there's lots of weird stuff out there! But people are slowly becoming more open and comfortable about that kind of thing which is really good.

I think as long as your open and willing to try things in the bedroom, that's all that matters. Haha. I've always said I'd be willing to try anything once.

[effie]

once .. then again just to check ;) x x x

[Joel]

Hmm, not sure if I should post this here, but here goes lol.

How come girls always deny masturbating if they get asked in public? :D
Guys seem so much more open about it.

[Massive-Molly]

Hmm, not sure if I should post this here, but here goes lol.

How come girls always deny masturbating if they get asked in public? :D
Guys seem so much more open about it.

It might be because they honestly don't, or it might (more probably) be because they're afraid of sounding like some kind of horny freak. Because nobody ever talks about female masturbation. So they think they're the only ones, even though it's completely normal.
I read somewhere that 89% of girls masturbate, but only like, 3% admit to it

[Sapphire]

It might be because they honestly don't, or it might (more probably) be because they're afraid of sounding like some kind of horny freak. Because nobody ever talks about female masturbation. So they think they're the only ones, even though it's completely normal.
I read somewhere that 89% of girls masturbate, but only like, 3% admit to it

i agree... its not something girls talk about openly, its not generally accepted conversation

i was embarrassed to admit to it... telling my husband was really hard to do, but the funny thing is he loved hearing about it

[Starlight53a]

Yep, I masturbate... That's got to be one of the most embarrassing things I can remember saying recently... :P lol

[iliketurtles]

Hmm, not sure if I should post this here, but here goes lol.

How come girls always deny masturbating if they get asked in public? :D
Guys seem so much more open about it.

Because women aren't supposed to be sexual, or not in that way. Whereas a guy's sexual value is usually regarded as higher amongst his peer group if he's slept with a lot of partners, the opposite is true for a woman- pretty sure the terms "slut" "ho" etc have only ever been applied to men ironically, whereas they can be really hurtful to a woman, or intended to be so. There's this whole bullshit thing where men are supposed to buy women things, be nice to them, prove their trustworthiness and commitment etc before being "allowed" to sleep with them. The idea of women enjoying sex as much as men kind of derails that model a bit, it undermines gender roles which have been in place for centuries- though admittedly they're changing. By admitting to masturbation, a woman is admitting to the shocking crime of being capable of deriving sexual pleasure which isn't based on feeling loved, intimacy, trust, engagement rings or babies; it's just based on itself.

Long post, but fuckit, be a feminist, masturbate.

[Joel]

Because women aren't supposed to be sexual, or not in that way. Whereas a guy's sexual value is usually regarded as higher amongst his peer group if he's slept with a lot of partners, the opposite is true for a woman- pretty sure the terms "slut" "ho" etc have only ever been applied to men ironically, whereas they can be really hurtful to a woman, or intended to be so. There's this whole bullshit thing where men are supposed to buy women things, be nice to them, prove their trustworthiness and commitment etc before being "allowed" to sleep with them. The idea of women enjoying sex as much as men kind of derails that model a bit, it undermines gender roles which have been in place for centuries- though admittedly they're changing. By admitting to masturbation, a woman is admitting to the shocking crime of being capable of deriving sexual pleasure which isn't based on feeling loved, intimacy, trust, engagement rings or babies; it's just based on itself.

Long post, but fuckit, be a feminist, masturbate.

That makes sense.

Thank you all :)

[Wannabe Beauty]

Long post, but fuckit, be a feminist, masturbate.

That is officially quote of the week. xDDD

[iliketurtles]

That is officially quote of the week. xDDD

Hurray! :)

[shadowgirl]

I have a question!

can someone who masturbates have a normal sex relationship with a partner of the opposite sex? I heard that it negatively affects the quality of the relationship. Is that true?

[silver_elf]

nope- if you aren't sexually frustrated you are happier and less likely to rush things :) it's good for letting off excess steam.
and you don't have to choose between sex and masturbation, you can do both. at the same time or not. lol
and knowing your own body is a HUGE plus.

[Becky]

i thought i was the only one of friends that did it because it is never talked about but then in a game of i never someone said 'i have never got myself off in a public place' 4 out of 10 girls drank to that.
so i would guess more of the girls did masturbate (just not in public)
one of my friends has got a vibrator as well

[effie]

i wonder does it burn many calories :L ??

[something-blue]

"Masturbation can burn up the calories, as well. You can lose between 100-150 calories for each act of masturbation, according to the Young People’s Reproductive and Sexual Health & Rights Organization." ( To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 1 or greater. You currently have 0 posts. ) hmm...

[9_Reasons]

never. im the biggest virgin ever. never had an actual kiss (besides a few pecks back in 3rd grade)
i dont even think about sex. or masturbatin. or any sexual things.
im 16 btw. :)

[dreamxonxaxwish]

i thought i was the only one of friends that did it because it is never talked about but then in a game of i never someone said 'i have never got myself off in a public place' 4 out of 10 girls drank to that.
so i would guess more of the girls did masturbate (just not in public)
one of my friends has got a vibrator as well

Ugh. I'm jealous. Haha. We played never have I ever this weekend (it was me, three guys and two girls) and I was the only girl that drank on the masturbating. Granted, one of the girls has only kissed a guy so it doesn't surprise me but the other one surprised me. Haha.

[Souris Sourire]

"Masturbation can burn up the calories, as well. You can lose between 100-150 calories for each act of masturbation, according to the Young People’s Reproductive and Sexual Health & Rights Organization." ( To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 1 or greater. You currently have 0 posts. ) hmm...
Oh PLEASE tell me this is true. ;)

[effie]

Oh PLEASE tell me this is true. ;)

hahahahahaa agreed :D ;) lmao

[nathrakh]

If it would be true. I would make daily attempts at breaking world record masturbation.......

[Perfection_seeker]

98% of people survived in Australia confirmed they do.