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OnlyGoestoShow
05-30-2010, 01:02 AM
I have been abused most of my life, so it was only a matter of time before I started doing the same in any matter that I could. (I am typing this at 3am, and I am hoping this is making sense). I have matured so much and grown with all of you, and I appreciate each and every one of you very much. I just love the vibes here. Gotta love the love vibes! But you know, I have really been struggling with this issue for about three months (though the longest months of my life) and I really started putting my tormenting thoughts into action in April. I dropped over twenty pounds that month.

This thing is taking over me, but I know I still have a little sense of control and I have been holding onto it all this time. I finally feel like I need to pull out of this ED thing while I still have control, and believe me in the early stages I believe some people may still have control. I have read many of your stories and see how everyone suffers. I think you all have saved my life in all actuality. I do not want the rest of my life to be like the last tormenting three months.

You could say I was a 'wannarexic' and I would have to agree. I think to an extent many of the people on here may want tips, more motivation, to install in them. I think the difference between me and the stereotypical 'wannarexics' is that I didn't want this as a temporary diet routine. I wanted this for life and I did feel like I wanted to die. I imagined starving as a cause of death with be a noble death. I did have that voice in my head, you know? I didn't need a forum to tell me that I am eating more than I deserve, and that I am nothing. And oh, I don't know. There's that epic wannarexic debate.

I guess what I am trying to say is I have not struggled with an ED for the extent that many of you all have. I am not going to exaggerate so I can get respect, either. I need to pull myself out of this while I feel like I still have the strengh. For those that may wonder why I have this sudden epiphone, the answer is my spirituality discovered slightly after my niece died. Go to The Chair and read 'Can Death Bring Life?'

I am not too far in this thing. I have to fight against the voice. I will not let it win. I have much better things to live for. I love every one of you. You are the most compassionate and easy-going people that I have ever come across in the cyber safari. <3

Marialise
05-30-2010, 01:39 AM
Good luck to whatever you're looking for :) Don't forget us :)

madeofstars
05-30-2010, 06:18 AM
I wish you all the very best. I admire you for having the strength to pull yourself out of this before it gets harder. I hope everything starts to get better for you. Take care <3

JEANNE
05-30-2010, 10:28 AM
WOW! You are amazingly honest and insightful and so so so blessed by that little soul that was so briefly here with us. No One can tell me that even the smallest of people, the briefest of lives are not without merit and gifts. Her life and death may just have given you back your LIFE. sounds like it anyway. Bravo, hon for hearing her whisper and reacting to the wisdom of the smallest of souls. I KNOW that you will make it and blessings to you both: niece and auntie! good good luck. Please let us know how you are doing xxoo Jeanne

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