"You need to stop liking me and get healthy"

[PokerFace]

Nevermind I feel like I'm overreacting after all I never had any claim on him....

I hope he's happy with her.

[averageguy]

there was a girl i used to go to college with. her name was amy. she had an eating disorder, not sure which one. i liked her a lot. i didn't know she liked me until her friends asked me if i liked her. i did.

i didn't know about her ED. however, her behaviour was completely not to my standards. no calls or replies to texts when i wanted to arrange something with her. found out she was often missing from school. too shy to connect with.

i liked her personality. i liked her looks. i'd be happy to have her as a girlfriend. however, her inconsiderate behaviour was unacceptable. thus, no relationship.

i didn't want it that way, but a dead-end relationship isn't what i want. so, i'm looking for girl who wants to grow with me.

hope that helps.

k

[wingspan]

I kind of had someone tell me this, except it was "you need to stop loving me so much, and get cute for me and yourself" ...

[PokerFace]

there was a girl i used to go to college with. her name was amy. she had an eating disorder, not sure which one. i liked her a lot. i didn't know she liked me until her friends asked me if i liked her. i did.

i didn't know about her ED. however, her behaviour was completely not to my standards. no calls or replies to texts when i wanted to arrange something with her. found out she was often missing from school. too shy to connect with.

i liked her personality. i liked her looks. i'd be happy to have her as a girlfriend. however, her inconsiderate behaviour was unacceptable. thus, no relationship.

i didn't want it that way, but a dead-end relationship isn't what i want. so, i'm looking for girl who wants to grow with me.

hope that helps.

k

Well my behavior isn't the problem. I'm not shy. I'm very attractive and usually pretty outgoing. I just have an ed. It sucks.
Communication isn't a problem in our relationship either, at least on my part. He wishes that I could read his mind.
Anyways I think the main problem is that he's insecure about the age difference between us. So he told me not to be angry with him for seeking happiness with someone else. He said I need to get healthy. He says the girl he's seeing now isn't better than me, but better for him. She's different, she's healthy.
I just feel hurt, like I'm not good enough.

[averageguy]

isn't it interesting how EDs are supposed to make you more attractive, and yet they do the opposite?

[flowersOFconfusion]

isn't it interesting how EDs are supposed to make you more attractive, and yet they do the opposite?

No1 ever told us the Eds were gonna make us pretty... I'm pretty sure it was just an idea we formulated in our minds. Lol. But yea, ik wat u mean... ;)