What do guys want!?

[anonymous]

Im finding it really hard to actually know what guys want, Anyone care to explain?
I dont want to just be a girl who guys get with, im not like that, i want something more then that. I deserve that surely? Do guys like skinny girls, curvey girls, nice or confident, i just dont know. I just feel like i want something and someone right now in my life and its just so hard to come by?

[CountingRibs]

Well hunni I don't really know what guys want tbh. I was jsut under the impression that guys want a thin tanned blonde who they can have sex with whenever they please, but as time goes on I have to say that not ALL guys want this. However I've just found that guys just like me for one thing and it's not flattering at all, except one guy who I'm sorta seeing now but things are complicated cos I dnt think I feel as much for him as he does for me but just don't want to hurt him.
I think the best person to ask is a guy, so if any guys on here wanna let us in on this then feel free cos I am intrigued also
xx

[Reid_man]

I'm gay so I don't know fir sure but I would say lean and confident...

[gluttonyisasin]

I figure that, just like girls, all guys like different things in their women. Don't conform to one particular image unless you want to. Be your own person, and the right person for you will come along. You might be in for a bit of a wait, like I am, but it'll all be worth it in the end.

[FastTodayLoseTomorrow]

As a guy, I want a girl who is confident with herself. As long as she is healthy and happy with herself then I don't care too much. I tend to be more attracted to athletically thin girls myself, but that is just a personal preference. I have never turned down a girl with curves and I think most guys would agree they are very sexy.

[RainbowEyes]

It differs between guys what they want, it's lucky for me my guy likes skinny girls but it's not all to do with appearance.
Most guys I think would prefer a sweet girl who's not too overbearing, but not too shy either.
But of course, it really is different between all guys. You can't really generalize.
Remember that guys don't just want another male friend, they want to be able to talk to you and confide in you but they probably won't want you to be 'one of the guys' because, let's face it, if they did, they'd just go find another man friend ;).
They want a nice, sweet girl they can take home to their parents, protect and take care of, but at the same time talk to and have fun with, that's what I think :).

[xXxLonelyxDayxXx]

hey there im a 16 yo guy from australia, in all honesty guys are different i got a mate who goes out with a chick sleeps with her and moves on in a week. me, im different, ive got my eyes set on this 1 girl i work with, i only told her today after 6 months (im shy) and i donno, but i want someone to love, go out with, have fun, i couldnt care if sex came into it in even after a few months im not one of them 1 night stands guys or anything (im in for the long run), id be happy with just having her around to love and look after and make her feel wanted :) and id hope she felt the same

-shannon :)

[hannahPROana]

I figure that, just like girls, all guys like different things in their women. Don't conform to one particular image unless you want to. Be your own person, and the right person for you will come along. You might be in for a bit of a wait, like I am, but it'll all be worth it in the end.

Totally agreed! There's not one specific formula that guys will always want. If you just be yourself, there will be a guy who will want you just for who you are. You just have to wait.

[blah]

different guys like different things in different girls
there isn't one set thing guys like, you'd be surprised how far off you are in thinking slim, tall, tan and blonde is the ideal. some guys like blondes, some brunettes, tall girls, short girls, curvy girls, fat girls..yes there are plenty of guys who prefer a chubby girl, petite girls, black girls, asian, latin, white, outgoing, shy, funny, athletic, artistic, girly, bitchy, sweet, smart, big boobs, small boobs, it's different for everyone, and some guys aren't too picky..there just has to be that chemistry

be yourself, try and stay healthy and be happy and somewhat confident and you will find a guy who likes you for that and more

[Sativa]

What I have discovered through experience is that guys who want the one night stand are typically your douche bag sports loving beer drinking dumbass. They also prefer skinny girls for the brag appeal.

However.
Those shy, quiet type of guys like their women curvy. They usually aren't looking for brag appeal they are looking for a good girl to keep, AND is super hot.

[blah]

What I have discovered through experience is that guys who want the one night stand are typically your douche bag sports loving beer drinking dumbass. They also prefer skinny girls for the brag appeal.

However.
Those shy, quiet type of guys like their women curvy. They usually aren't looking for brag appeal they are looking for a good girl to keep, AND is super hot.


haha nah not really
some like em big some like em small
doesn't matter about their stereotype
just what makes their dick hard

[Sativa]

I don't find. This is a stereotype from the guys who have made fun of me in the past. It was pretty consistent that the jock type douchebag guido gino guys would make fun of me more than shyer, quieter guys.

[blah]

I don't find. This is a stereotype from the guys who have made fun of me in the past. It was pretty consistent that the jock type douchebag guido gino guys would make fun of me more than shyer, quieter guys.


maybe that's because those guys are more outgoing, and those ones who made fun of you happened to be assholes..the shyer guy could be an asshole too, but you wouldn't know, cuz he is not the one to go making fun of people to make himself feel better lol..sorry people made fun of you though ): very douchey of them, once you're out of HS that kind of stuff should end

[Jack112]

Well i am a guy :)
Body image hair colour nothing really bothers me
i have a girlfriend now she is very skinny but only because of an ED she has had in the past but that has nothing to do with why im with her i genuinely love her for being her we just share the same interests, music everything its great i know that i want to stay with her for life. i cannot describe the love i feel for her.

[The_dude]

guys just want sex. no debate about it. there is no "just friends" between guys and girls after they're 12. bad news, I know, but that's the honest truth

[SparklyVampire]

that's just bollocks, guys want to be punished.
Seriously, get out a whip and handcuffs, and there's no way he'll ever get away from you.

[The_dude]

@sparklyvampire rawr, where and when can we meet?

[Eve]

As a woman, you have to be strong, stand up for ur self, dont ever chase a man... trust urself believing that ur the most beautiful n powerful woman on earth let your inner beauty also attracts him... ofcourse care more about ur outer appearance ur hands hair smell (its one of the most attarctive things for a man) the way u dress, laugh out loud in a polite way ofcourse dnt tell him what ur thinkin about let him die to know, let him be afraid to lose you...
let him read in your eyes what you are planning for or whats on ur mind...
a man will like this kinda woman be sure strong but at the same time she is a "Full woman" not all men but most of them n every woman has her unique charmin things inner or outer things which for sure will attract one man on this earth
i advise you to take care of your health n appearance n enrich your inner beauty n youll shine hell likes u surely

[never_skinny]

The RIGHT guys want a girl who loves herself as much as them, which is why you can't find the right guy. They want a girl they can cuddle and game with. Sure, sex is an issue, but isn't it an issue for everybody? You really aren't in the right mindset to date if you don't like sex...


that's just bollocks, guys want to be punished.
Seriously, get out a whip and handcuffs, and there's no way he'll ever get away from you.

HOT. Finally, another mistressy type. Wanna whip me?

[Eve]

guys just want sex. no debate about it. there is no "just friends" between guys and girls after they're 12. bad news, I know, but that's the honest truth

of course they want sex n a girl want sex n she cant resist if theres seducation so she must be strong n never let the guy seduce her easily so he takes what he want she has to seduce him n tease him without givin him what he wants let sex be the last thing u think about but in the same "torture" the guy softly :D guys r lovely n good altough they think about sex coz a girl also thinks about sex but with love n commitment thats why shes shocked if after sex the guy didnt contact her

[Vision Thing]

hey there im a 16 yo guy from australia, in all honesty guys are different i got a mate who goes out with a chick sleeps with her and moves on in a week. me, im different, ive got my eyes set on this 1 girl i work with, i only told her today after 6 months (im shy) and i donno, but i want someone to love, go out with, have fun, i couldnt care if sex came into it in even after a few months im not one of them 1 night stands guys or anything (im in for the long run), id be happy with just having her around to love and look after and make her feel wanted :) and id hope she felt the same

-shannon :)


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