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LadyJessica
04-25-2009, 05:07 PM
Hello,

I'm Jessica from the UK and I'm 20.
Been struggling with I guess bulimia for nearly 9 years. Bad times and better times. The last couple of years have been fairly bad really.
I can't help but either not eat or eat and then purge.
Purge until my eyes are bloodshot, i'm throwing up bile, my face is swollen, i have broken veins in my face, around my eyes, dry skin and lips, undoubtedly bad breath, bloatedness, smelling of sick.
I purge until my whole body tries to stop me, shaking, sweating, passing out. The chest pains, for days.
But I continue, secretly liking it, liking being in control(???), liking it being my thing, my secret.

I need to sort this, or I need to change it. I need to change what I'm doing, be more willing to eat small healthy low calorie things regularly to avoid major binges and painful purging.
I'm small, realisitically i know i'm smaller than most, people comment. It doesn't matter though. Means nothing.
I love bones, is that wrong?
I love seeing my ribs in my back.

I need to stop purging, It went hand in hand with my self harm, terrible draining self harm, getting in the bath, getting out of the bath leaving all the blood to run down the plughole. Horrid horrid horrid.
I managed to stop that (i miss it), why did this stay?

I'm sorry for the ranting, I've been dying to type this all day.
J.x

Pinkie
04-28-2009, 01:09 AM
Hi Jessica,

I think a lot of us get an intense feeling of "not wanting to be fat" which is why we keep messing with our bodies in these really unhealthy ways... we all need to get a grip somehow.... but its really not easy.. this disorder just messes with our heads!! then we mess with our body and its a cycle thats so intense and unhealthy but we still do it!!

I would say seek help if you have a strong desire to get healthy and happy? confide in atleast one person, whether it be on here or in real life. Eventually this disorder will be the end for us all if we dont beat it before it beats us... X.X

fuzzybluelint
05-05-2009, 06:04 PM
Oh, Jessica, I wish I could give you a big hug. I'm so sad for you that you are having so much pain in your life.
Is there a person you can talk to in the real world?

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