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megan1994
04-10-2010, 01:51 PM
I'm planning on giving my first blow job tomorrow, and I have absoloutley no idea how?
How do I do it?!
x
Sapphire
04-10-2010, 02:16 PM
well... first i would say, are you sure this is what you want to do? is he the right guy?
the quick lesson:
dont use your teeth, use your lips and touge
practice on a cucumber is the easiest.
basic in and out of your mouth, but not all the way out of your mouth, keep like an inch or two in your mouth.
dont go so deep in your mouth throat because youll start to chaok
for the forpay: lick it sort of like an icecream cone... and oh, you want to hold it at the base so you can direct it to where you want it.
with your free hand, gently cup his balls... gently mind you, dont sqeeze - that will hurt really bad... so if he pisses you off well....
oh, the most sensitive spot is on the bottom side of him, just under his head. flicker your tounge there a lot, he'll love it
but that about it.
until i was with my husband id make most guys were a condom, and the ones that didnt id spit the cum out. yuck.
youll be fine :)
YuGiOh
04-11-2010, 09:44 PM
Oral sex is dangerous. You may catch something. How well do you really know this guy? Also, guys feel empowered when women give them oral. You don't want him to think he can dominate you!!!
manymays
04-12-2010, 11:31 AM
hi its not an embarrassing question at all ...
okay. first things first. please make sure he knows what you want to do and please ask him to go get that place clean before you start. grot isnt sexy.
the fact that you're willing should already turn him on ... being eager is a huge turn on. :)
everybody talks about deepthroating but the key is really the head. take the head and let your tongue rove, let your mouth and tongue sheath it but don't suck, it can be painful. the hot spot is right under the mushroom head hahaha where it looks like the bottom side of your tongue. flick it with the tip of your tongue
try to get your saliva over his entire dick, and use your hands to work the parts where you can't hold down in your throat ... work it in a steady rhythm up and down, if he likes it faster he'll tell you
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Inedia
04-14-2010, 05:50 AM
Of course it's not an embarrassing question, although yes you should be careful. One of my friends got a throat infection from going down on a guy who hadn't cleaned down there properly. If you know him and you trust him and you feel he has earned a blowjob then the following should make him go insane:
1) saliva is your friend. Don't be afraid to let it get messy, the wetter it is the better it will feel for him
2)use your hands on his balls, play with them and tease them, but be gentle
3)teeth are bad. Don't use them unless he asks you to. some guys like it but most don't.
4)make eye contact. They find it goddamn sexy
5)have fun with it and tease him. Don't be afraid to stop anytime you want. He needs to know that YOU are in control of this situation. You will do what pleases you, and if he likes it great.
6)You can tie him up if you want to. That's always fun
7)wear something sexy. It will give you confidence. Confidence is hot.
Good luck.
Have fun
Be safe...
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