New boyfriend and mia!

[sensitive_soul21]

HEY guys

I have had Mia for 5years now.Ive had threapy and still on antidepressents. I been with my new guy for 4months now,hes dead sweet and caring.But im also gaining i was happist at 8stone 3 (115lbs) but now 122lbs :( im tryin hard not to get down but my man always eats choccie etc.I restirct myself most days and gym it most days too.I use weightwatchers and write everything down i eat.I have hardly purged since bein with my new guy.But gettin upset im gaining.Also im going away at wkened as my brother gettin married.family already said we are havin fish and chips :( just need help what to do.i wanna get to 110lbs by end june for holidays,Sorry to moan just get so down about it.Know one else understands me on 600cal so far today then going gym.

L x

[JetBlack61]

tell him about your worries and get him to work out with you as a way of spending time together.

[sensitive_soul21]

Thanks Jet Black i may speak to him when can just hate making a big issue out of it.It happened again last night went supermarket to pick salad stuff up, and had to get him whole pack on angel cake slices and choclate crossaints :( he offered me one i said no which im glad i got willpower,but Mia gets me wants it, and i get kind of upset he has treats and i cnt cos i get fat (i a fat):( Dreading tonight and the weekend food wise.I sometimes get control then lose it.Thanks 4 listening.wish icould be normal.

[JetBlack61]

nothing is impossible, if you truly want to be normal work at it, slowly. take tiny steps and ask your bf for help. if hes worth it he will give you all the support you need.

[SeaFeel]

How many calories do you eat normally, i mean when you're trying to maintain? I think its wonderful you're not purging now, just keep to that! Also, plan some sweets in your eating plan! Nothing will happen if you keep it to the amount you have planned and it helps to calm down mia ... I know where you're coming from, few weeks ago i was silently crying when my brother was eating some muffins next to me, and hated the whole world b/c i couldn't have them... I'm on therapy and my task for last week was planning some sweets into my healthy diet- its so hard to do and to deal with guilt/feeling full afterwards. But it's true that one piece of chocolate won't make you fat, i was actually losing a few pounds last week while having some stuff I would never have eaten before :)

[sensitive_soul21]

Thanks that such a lovely thing to say Seafeel :) I am trying my best.I want to overcome Mia,and i will.Wuthers are my sweet fix 20cal a sweetie! thanks for support and advice xxx