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soph
03-15-2009, 10:25 PM
Hey everyone,
i just joined this site and wanted to possibly meet some new people who are going through the same thing as me and possibly make new friendships.
Unfortunetly im bullemic. I have been for nearly 3 years now, and over time its only gotten worse.
I weigh about 63kg and im about 165cm in height. Im 18 years old and although no one thinks im fat i always feel it. =(
I want to lose weight and being bullemic i hate it!! i dont even lose weight anymore doing it! i jsut want to lose weight quickly =(
If anyone's up for a chat id luv to! =D

FishFace
03-16-2009, 01:07 AM
Hey soph

I'm 19 and I'm bulimic too, it sucks. I'm trying to stop bingeing/purging so I can start losing weight again.

Anyway, I'm here for support if you need it :)

soph
03-16-2009, 04:17 AM
hey

thanks heaps! how r u losing weight? how much do u weigh n your height?
do u think being 63kg and about 5'5 is overweight? thats me for u!im 18

LessThanPerfect
03-16-2009, 01:51 PM
Hey,, im 16, 5'6 and 59kg. is that good or bad? im too fat, everyones like "oh your not fat.. bla bla bla" but i always feel it and i hate it. any help?

sarah-charlotte
03-16-2009, 02:13 PM
hi girls I've had anorexia for almost 10 years and was bulimic for 3 years and i can tell you honestly that you can break the cycle you can get rid of the mia madness! granted i switched back to ana to control my hunger/cravings but the turning point was when two of my teeth started to rot and had to be extracted at age 21 - trust be girls you do not want that to happen. im not saying that ana is safe at all because it isn't but its a hell of a lot safer than mia and you will lose weight. it just takes control, dont let you cravings control you, be strong and you can beat it.

FishFace
03-16-2009, 07:10 PM
thanks for the optimism, sarah-charlotte. I easily lose hope sometimes.

I'm 5'7" and 140 lbs, which is a BMI of 21.9

soph, your BMI is at about 23.1, and LessThanPerfect yours is about 21

...which means both of you are NOT overweight, you are at healthy weights. But personally I feel like I'm huge at my BMI, so I can understand how you feel. But realize that you are not technically overweight, and no sane person should think you're fat.

Still... it's hard to change your own ideas about how you look, and stuff. I'm hoping to lose some more weight by reducing calories

soph
03-17-2009, 03:08 AM
Thanks guys!
its sooo good to have people to chat to.
i dont think im too fat or anything, but when i see other girls who are just naturally soooooo skinny it annoys me and i feel obesse standing next to them!its soooo annoying!!!
i mean i know guys like a girl with a bit of fat on them (well something to hug i guess not just skin n bone).. i do have stuff to hug..but im not comfortable with the way i look. People compliment me on the way i look but i just think there lies :(
i wish i had the confidence! i can go a day or two without vomitting which im happy about :) yesterday i didnt vomit at all.. and today i vomitted only once. which is really good for me! ..i have only lately started vomitting once a day.. i used to vomit a lot more!
tell me all about yourselves? =)
If any of you guys need to chat im always here! =D

prayingtobethin
03-18-2009, 12:07 AM
Hey guys,
I just joined this site, so I'm new too. I'm 5'3" and 128-130 lbs.
cw:130 hw:132 lw:121 gw:105
I hate how I look and I feel like I am obese. I know I am not, but I definitely am waaaay over how much I should weigh to feel good about myself. The past month I have been trying not to eat, but I only get about 2 or 3 days into things and I just give into the cravings and I binge. I can't throw up either, so I end up gaining back all the weight. For a week I was able to not eat anything and I dropped down to 121. It felt sooo good, but then I lost it all when I ate one thing. I can't control myself when I am around food- it just draws me in. I want to be skinny and tiny again, and I HATe the feeling after I've eaten. Anybody have ANY tips they can help me with? I realized I just have to be skinny again or I won't ever have my self confidence back, and I feel all alone with this...
:/

soph
03-18-2009, 05:22 AM
welcome prayingtobethin!
i also feel obese half the time its so annoying and feeling fat around really skinny people!its so frustrating!
if you want to lose weight, i think you should do some exercise? do you do much? i have just begun getting back into it! i have busy days but i run every night just jog for about 15-20 mins, depending on how tired i am. i try and aim to 15 mins. then i come home and pump my music full blast and do my 50-100 sit ups and some star jumps =) Its simple and quick! and after im usually dead so i just go to sleep!..that way i dont think about food and im not hungry.
i feel like im gettin a bit better, i dont always vomit every day and if i do its only usually once a day.
i think i weigh 61-62kg now. i really want to get down to 55 and ill be happy!

FallenAngel321
03-18-2009, 04:38 PM
Hey everyone,
i just joined this site and wanted to possibly meet some new people who are going through the same thing as me and possibly make new friendships.
Unfortunetly im bullemic. I have been for nearly 3 years now, and over time its only gotten worse.
I weigh about 63kg and im about 165cm in height. Im 18 years old and although no one thinks im fat i always feel it. =(
I want to lose weight and being bullemic i hate it!! i dont even lose weight anymore doing it! i jsut want to lose weight quickly =(
If anyone's up for a chat id luv to! =D

hey soph you've been doing really well with bulimia and your NOT fat and you are in the perfect weightrange now :D dont change!!!! :):D

FallenAngel321
03-18-2009, 04:43 PM
thanks for the optimism, sarah-charlotte. I easily lose hope sometimes.

I'm 5'7" and 140 lbs, which is a BMI of 21.9

soph, your BMI is at about 23.1, and LessThanPerfect yours is about 21

...which means both of you are NOT overweight, you are at healthy weights. But personally I feel like I'm huge at my BMI, so I can understand how you feel. But realize that you are not technically overweight, and no sane person should think you're fat.

Still... it's hard to change your own ideas about how you look, and stuff. I'm hoping to lose some more weight by reducing calories

omg i TOTALLY agree with you FishFace (lol wat a cute name:D) i STILL dont understand that girls that are still in their teens or early 20's think that their 'fat' when their NOT....... you DONT have to be 'Thin' to be Happy!!!!! :D:D

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